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    Why I REFUSE To Date In Southeast Asia



    After spending 5 months in Southeast Asia, I get asked all the time about what’s it like dating here and how are the women in Southeast Asia. Today I’m going to talk about why I have refused to date here in Southeast Asia.
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    33 Comments

    2. The Chosen1 on

      Whatever your destiny lies I support you. When I grew up, my mother and father told me to get a Chinese or African American girl because I'm mixed with both. So that definitely happens with most families.

    4. Kayninho on

      I’ve been in south east asia for the last 6 months and im definitely not attracted to the women here. I agree in that vietnamese women are the most attractive though.

    5. Kayninho on

      Language and cultural barrier in Asia is a big issue. Many, ofc not all, of the women who do speak english work or have worked in s*x industry and or ran through by a bunch of foreigners.

    6. Kristofer with a k on

      Hehe my girlfriend doesnt speak a word of english and i barely can speak portugese but i get practice every day here in brazil……and no, im not a passport bro. Uhg i hate that term. It just sounds like being a player but in other countries

    8. x on

      Definitely go to Europe, it's so colorful, every country is different but all are very friendly and worth visiting. Currently I'm traveling through Southeast Europe and it's a pleasure to experience life here. However, you have to get in touch with locals, live with them to experience the real culture with all it's downsides too. That's what I always do, and in general it's one of the best ways to explore a country.

    11. Myb on

      My comment on air pollution on a previous video might have gotten deleted ( and i have notifications off atm ) and regarding this passport bro / travelling outside first world countries thing, so ill say it here as I believe it is very important and interesting for you and others.

      Hamza is like the only person on all of youtube who actually LIVED in these mainstream social media popular countries and passport bro movement , Thailand, Bali (Bali was short term 1-2month thing ) AND Dubai! He realized something very eye opening and that is the danger of air pollution for long term living in these countries. His health and breathing got a bit messed up especially in Dubai (He was paying over 10k per month in a luxury place there ) and after moving back to UK, he firmly believes first world countries really are superior over these third world countries that everyone loves banging on about. Healthcare , food quality, safety etc are all very good in first world countries ( In Bali he said construction workers dont wear any protection and nearly got hurt by them while riding his scooter ) The main topic of interest is women and dating on this channel / niche and even that can be managed in a first world country. A good feminine woman can be found anywhere in the world even in west. Hamza is the one guy who can testify all this from actual experience and hard work, travel, socializing etc.

      You going to Europe might be a wonderful idea based on this theory and his analysis.

    12. Mighty Savage on

      I agree that reflecting on life is necessary for personal growth. Unfortunately, very few people take the time to understand their role in various situations, be it in relationships or friendships. It's crucial to ask ourselves about our role in those situations and why we keep attracting certain types of people into our lives. It's commendable to see you making an effort to work on yourself. In doing so, you'll gradually become the person you didn't even know you wanted to be.

    13. Rohit Sengupta on

      I think you should keep traveling, and find globally minded people (which exist in all countries). Eventually you will find one who makes you want to stop traveling and settle down, or you will meet one who wants to travel the world with you. That's how you know you found the right person. That is my story.

    16. Yaz562 on

      Go to Brazil first. The women are out of this world. Also Austin Texas has some really gorgeous ans open minded white girls lol

    19. melee75 on

      Portugal is pretty easy to do since it's so small and it's next to Spain too. You can even check out Morocco since it's so close. Both countries are fairly priced but the bigger cities are more expensive. The women are also pretty attractive especially Spain. For my next trip I'll probably check out some of the Balkan countries (Albania, Bulgaria, Serbia, Bosnia, North Macedonia) since they're more affordable.

    21. fieraa on

      Setiap orang punya jalan hidup yang berbeda punya sifat yang berbeda,di eropa pun yang pendiam banyak yang atraktif juga banyak. Intinya tergantung peribadi masing-masing

    22. James Yin on

      Being Born and raised in Brooklyn NY. Feel the same way as you. I have dated a few Viet girls but all were very family oriented but had bad tempers lol.

    24. ceeloc on

      I’m East Asian and have the same taste as you. I always wonder if I have some deep inner self hate issues that I’m not aware of. So sometimes I’m second guessing myself like should I give Asian girls a chance. After traveling around the world, I’m visiting my first Asian country next month in Thailand and Vietnam. Who knows, maybe my taste will change.

    27. Khmer Warrior on

      Though you seem reluctant to date local women in Southeast Asian countries, I dont think there are any other countries in the world that are better than Southeast Asian countries for East Asian looking dudes in terms of being popular with local women. For example, if you are korean or you look remotely korean….you would be an instant hit in the Philippines….I assure you any social class you are bound to find a girl who would date you. Korean looking dudes are very popular with local women in Philippines. Same in Vietnam and all over Southeast Asia. They would actually prefer u to a European white man.

    29. GuessWho? on

      While I don't agree with everything you post on your YouTube channel, you do make a lot of valid points in your videos that I do concur with. I think ultimately where you choose to live should all come back to what you went out of life, assuming you have the luxury of living in a city of your choice. For instance, if you love surfing, I think the worst place you could probably move to would be South Dakota where you are over a thousand miles from the nearest ocean. On the other hand, if you hate the cold weather then staying near the equator is generally a good way to avoid that. So you have to find a city that suits your needs. I will tell you that Europe is very lacking when it comes to natural beauty compared to South America or Asia; don't expect to find lots of impressive waterfalls or jungles. Europe is geographically smaller and public transportation is generally good, but I can't really give it a thumbs up for cost of living unless you move to Eastern Europe which generally suffers from poor infrastructure. Good luck either way

    31. Maria Melo on

      I suspect you will have affinity for Southern Europe: Spain,Portugal, or Italy, maybe Southern France. After a short adjustment, those languages will come to you

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